My Free Gift to YOU!

A pleasure challenge, a playlist, some of my top recommended items to get for pleasure and more…

What if you focused on Pleasure for 5 days?

For 5 Days immerse yourself in the power of putting Pleasure first in life. Learn about the healing powers of pleasure. Daily challenges and a supportive Facebook group for this FREE 5 Day Challenge: Pleasure is Your Birthright.

Many women ask me, what do you use for pleasure, or where do I start, there is so much to choose from. I have compiled a starter kit along with the folks at LA’s Pleasure Chest:

The Wand. It is worth the $100+ price tag. It has five speeds, get the cordless/rechargeable model. It can provide direct stimulation or be used with an insertable for deeper pleasure.

The Lelo Sona 2. This small hand held packs a lot. For me and many women I talk to, it is a sure thing.

NJoy. I was skeptical at first about this one. If you have troubles with penetration, this may not be a starting point. Vaginal Dilators may be a better bet. If you tolerate pain free penetration, use this with lube. It is great for solo play or partner play and cleans up really well. It can hit the G-spot, or just be used for penetration play. Use with lube.

Meet Christie Bemis

Personal Pleasure Coach and Psychotherapist

Christie has been working with woman for two decades in support of them living their life with passion and with pleasure. She is a co-author of the book, Ignite Your Life: Live Life with Passion, Pleasure and Play and she is creator of Wisdom Cards for Midlife Women. Recently, she completed her advance training with Somatica® Institute. This training allows for experiential tools with clients. Supporting women, men and couples to connect with their bodies, learn to listen to their bodies and explore touch, play and intimacy.

Why is pleasure her passion?

After many years without pleasure or fulfillment, Christie began her own personal journey in seeking pleasure. Mentoring with many incredible women in the field of sexuality and pleasure, she has cultivated her own life to be in constant seeking of joy and pleasure. Now, she supports midlife women to ignite to passions and make their next years their best years yet!